Kiss a beast, or a frog kind of man..but he will never become a Prince...

Lots a stories and movies make it look like the beauty of a woman make a prince out of a beast of a man- but that is not the truth. Kiss a beast, and he will devour you,..kiss a frog and he will drag you under into the pit, sisters!-..that is the truth!..


I want to share with you some very good dating advice :)...to help you understand WHO you are to look for, and if you are married, to understand why your mariage is as it is.

Paul writes many strange things, and I will share with you one of those sayings, and give you the thoughts on the subject that I believe God has given me.
1.cor.11.7
" a man is the image and glory of God, woman is the glory of man"..
In other more understandable words; a man is the image and glory of THE GOD that He is devoted too...and a woman reflects that man..
are you with me ?..I guess not!
As Jesus would have said; from the beginning it was meant to be so...that a man carries the image and the glory of His creator!..and we all agree, but what about today?.. one thing is sure those menn that we all see and have around us, they are not ALL carrying the image and Glory of their creator..we do not recognize JESUS in them..right?..BUT they all carry the image and the glory of something- of THE GOD that they are devoted to.
The muslim man who devotes himself to the muslim God does carry the image and glory of this god..and their god is a god who are on a distance, a god who is happy one day and may give you heaven, even when you dont deserve it, or when he is angry- give you a living hell. A devoted muslim man becomes like this god, and does not fellowship with his wife, and does make her the object of his temper..creating much fear in her.
A man who does not devote himself to any god..he devotes himself to HIMSELF- his own pleasures, which may be divided into 3 types of devotions, and 3 types of menn who carry the glory and image of their devotion.
1- power
2-money
3-sex

The one who worship/devote himself to power you will find in some leadership position, even in all kinds of churches..or on his way UP..marry him and you will need to settle with the fact that he will use all means available to make you understand that he is better,smarter, and wiser than YOU his woman. You would not sparkle with him, but are to make HIM look good!

The one who devotes himself to money, you easily spot too..fancy cars,looking good, always on the go.. Marry him if you like to be alone most of the time...lOL, He has no time for anything that does not give him profit, and his wife dont. He may give you money, but most likely he will want to see you work as hard as possible to earn MORE money..so there is no time to enjoy life.
The one who devotes himself to sex, is also easily spotted, but a woman easily fall for his seductive spirit, and many teenager girls get pregnant with these types of menn..You recognice them by their body language and eyes that eat you alive. marry this kind of man, and you will feel like an object, because that is how he sees you. No matter how beautifull you are and how often you give him sex, it will never be good enough, and soon he will leave you for another prey..blaming YOU for it all.
As I am trying to show you, a man carry the glory of THE GOD he devotes himself too..it being sex,power, the muslim god , budda, or Jesus Christ- the glory and image that any man carries is visible,for those that train their eyes to see, so look for it!..
Some say; find a christian man, and everything will be ok..but that is FAR from the truth.
I once had a dating profil on a christian dating web place, and ended up running for my life twice, after meeting up with "christian" beasts, who did not know Jesus christ, but had 4 years of bible school , or big words.. A christian man does not always know , nor devote himself to Jesus christ..so look for his "GOD"; who is he worshiping with his LIFE- not in words, as any man is good with flattering words, and women are so easily flattered, and seduced,..
look for something else- look at where he goes when he need comfort. Does he go to His mom, sister or wiffe ?..and NOT to Jesus christ?, then you know that his devotion is not toward Jesus, but somewhere else- and THAT somewhere else place you NEED to find! or YOU will end up in trouble..because as the GOD of the man is, so will the man become.
Paul said that we are changed form Glory to Glory...oh yes, but that again depends on which glory the man carries!..a muslim man or a sex devoted man, does go from glory to glory too- oh yes, they get WORSE as time goes by..more and more like the GOD they are devoted to..

Some women does the fatal mistake and believe that a frog willl become a prince, but NO!; he does not- he become MORE and more a frog.as time goes by..or more and more a beast.
If you find a man that are devoted to Jesus Christ..you sure find something GOOD!..then you KNOW that even if he is not perfect, he will change from glory to glory too..and become more and more like JESUS CHRIST!.. it will not be your doing at all, but the one who lives inside HIM will transform him as days goes by..wow, that is the kind of man we as woman want!..because then we will feel like queens, because of the way he would lift us up, speak to us tenderly and be true and humble with us..all that we women wants..and as years go by, he will become better and better at it :)..
Paul went on to say that the MAN is the glory of a woman...
Many menn seem to have turned this around and think that if they find a beautifull woman, then SHE will be their GLORY!..but as I told you, that does not happen, as a man carries the glory of the God he worshipps..and if he makes his wife into his GOD..then he will become like HER more and more, and demand her to be like he desires her to be..and in the next turn they file for divorce..as no woman have what is takes to be an object of worship..it drains us of strenght, instead of giving strenght.
When I see a woman who sparkle with life, and laughs at the days ahead like the woman in proverbs 31, then I know that she had a good Father, and /or has a good husband..
The glory on a woman , sparkling LIFE! comes from the man!..as paul said, the Glory of a woman is man. As Jesus would have said; in the begining it was meant to be so that a man loved his woman in such a way that the woman felt like a queen, and dressed and walked like one too..laughing with joy and speading the warmt of love and life to any creature.
BUT as it is in the world today, it is not so. Or to say it in other words; Today the glory that a woman reflects tells us if she is married to a frog , or a beast or which God the man in her life is devoted to.
..a woman refelcts the GLORY that the man she is with carries !..IF the man carries the glory of sex- his woman look like an sex object, because that is how she feels that she is.
If a man worship power, his woman reflect and look like and behave like a doormat!..
If the man is a devoted worshipper of Jesus, his woman reflect the glory that this man carries- she will feel loved, and everyone will see that when they see her..they will se the glory of JESUS!
If I see a sad and despressed wife, I look at the husband, because the GLORY that he is to her is reflected in her as depression, so I wonder about what GOD he is devoted to?
This is my best dating tips sisters..remember that a beast does not become a prince just because YOU kiss him, he will always be a beast.
So look for the prince , and kiss HIM, and then YOU will become a princess!- and start to SHINE and sparkle with The GLORY of JESUS!..because that is the GLORY which the man carries who is devoted to JESUS CHRIST..and HE will be YOUR glory!..the glory on your head will come from HIS love for you, our of devotion to JESUS, not a devotion to you!.
I am not saying that a woman does not have a glorious relationship with JESUS if her husband is not devoted to Jesus. She may have so , with or without him, but her womanhood, the way she feels about herself, the way she mothers her kids..the way she sparkle or not, is related more to the man she is with , than we fully realize . Her father is the first one to make her sparkle or be depressed..to give her hope and a future, or despair..then a husband continues, and her destiny is often clearly seen.Thank God that JESUS came to set captives FREE!
Queen Ester was a queen long before she was crowned one,. her caretaker Moderkai feared the GOD of ISRAEL, and was devoted to HIM, and because of that Ester reflected this glory that was on Moderkai- the Glory of God!,..and everyone saw her as BEAUTIFUL!.. and she was obedient to Moderkai, because she knew that he loved her with a love that comes from the God he served. He sacrificed ester in a way, as an obedient act between him and His god, and Ester allowed it to happen, because she admired Her masters devotion..she felt LOVED!!
Isak, went through some awful experience, when he was almost sacrificed on that altar , because of the devotion that his father had to the God of Israel..but did Isak become bitter or fearfull ?..no!, Isak continued on in the devotion to His GOD, the God of Israel- just a his father did.

brothers- If you have read this- do take some time to get to know what you are devoted to- look at your life and your dreams and desires, where you go for comfort, from where do you draw strenght?..and you will discover whos image and glory you carry!

anita